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         My dear hubby remarked yesterday its been long since we had puttu. Let’s have puttu for breakfast tomorrow. I agreed with a sight aversion as it requires time to prepare it. Being a Sunday at times I do feel I need to prepare something special while at the same time you have this relaxed laid back attitude and want to go for something special. 
       Anyways I decided to go the puttu way and soaked chick peas overnight. Now puttu is a Kerala dish and had for breakfast. Its healthy and quite filling. There are many variants of the puttu it could be prepared in Ragi/ Nachani, Rice, Rava etc.  The one I prepared today was of brown rice and it could be teamed up with kadala (chick-pea) curry , chicken curry, pappadum, banana etc. Well we had it with the kadala curry and its always a hit.

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        The other day my team member who is expecting talked to me about a drink that I heard for the very first time. Over casual talk I checked on her health and her daily diet. That’s when she referred to Ambil a drink made of Ragi or Nachni as called in northern India and millet for the westerners. 

        This cereal has multiple benefits and is highly nutritional. Its rich in calcium, iron and folic acid. Helps to maintain your body cool in the summers and is a great option for the kids. Today lets prepare the Ragi Kool/ Pech or Millet Porridge which you could have for breakfast.
        Its filling and a very quick and great option for the morning intake. I have fed both my kids as infants and I too have started having a bowl every morning. You might want to try a small portion with the kids as it might not suit few.
         Ragi can be ground, tied in a muslin cloth, strained and later used to prepare porridge. If you find it a tedious task you can reach the local supermarket for the readily available ragi flour. You will need –

  • Ragi Flour 2 to 3 table spoons
  • Milk – 1 cup
  • Sugar/ Jaggery – as per taste
  • Cardamom/ Elaichi – 1
The quantity stated would be enough to make a bowl of porridge. 

Preparation Time – 5 minutes

              Mix the flour in a bowl of milk such that there aren’t any lumps. Add sugar as per taste and then place it on the stove. Cook it on low heat stirring continuously so that it doesn’t stick to the bottom. The mixture should form a paste in sometime. Once done switch it off add pounded cardamom and have it when warm.

Next time the much awaited Ambil 🙂

 

 

              Have you ever been to a typical South Indian marriage or for that matter a Tamil wedding in the interiors? It need not be a wedding to witness the gymnastic frenzy of the rice ball. Confused aren’t you?
              Well here I refer to a typical Tamilian sitting cross legged in front of a plate or banana leaf with a heap of rice. The curry (sambar/ kuzambhu) or rasam is poured over it and it very much might flow off the leaf but then experience teaches you to control it. Rasam is prepared using tamarind pulp, tomato and spices like pepper and jeera. This preparation is a very good digestive aid and is an important item in the meal. It is preceded by the sambar followed by moru commonly known as buttermilk.

Here you can see a meal of rasam rice picked from chefinyou.com

              The rasam is then mixed by crushing the rice in your palm and then rolled into a ball with is then deftly tossed into the mouth from a distance. The ball is chewed noisily for few seconds and then swallowed. People enjoy taking a ladle of rasam in their cupped palm and drinking it off with a slurp. The rasam might trickle down the forearm but then that’s fine as the element of fun mixed with the pungent taste of rasam wouldn’t compromise for mess. Be it the rasam or the moru!!! Remember watching the King Khan on the screen licking his fingers dipped in curd and noodles and later smacking his lips in the dud movie Ra One as Shekhar Subramanium. Well its the trademark south indian practice 🙂
             As an entity outside the south Indian circuit you might find it weird or for that matter uncultured but then that’s how my uncles and grandparents brought up in the Dravidian soil prefer to have their meals. I have seen them having their lunch and dinner over the last three decades. The satisfaction having a spread in a banana leaf filled with the various delicacies of the main course to the desert that would normally be payasam can’t be compared to anything. At times I crave for it and feel like digging my mouth into it.
            I am off in a fortnight to the lands of the Cholas, Pandavas and Cheras. If you want to experience it you ought to be there.

I caught up with this movie yesterday in a late night show. Hirani’s product is worth a watch ……… Based on Chetan Bhagat’s Five Point Someone Rajkumar has tried to drive home the point that

  • The current education system needs to be changed to acquire knowledge and not just memorize and excel in academics.
  • Be honest and don’t get into malpractices to clear your exams.
  • Follow your heart as that is when you achieve true happiness.
  • A message to all the parents to not pressurize their kids.

This has been conveyed in a very subtle way. It isn’t hard hitting but surely makes you think about it. I wish I could have convinced my father then after my HSC to get into Journalism and not into Engg. today I wouldn’t be in search of that contentment that I crave for…..

The story has been told in a very light and breezy manner……it winds through the current lives of the actors and their past intermittently. Kareena is like a breath of fresh air in all her scenes. She has potrayed her role effortlessly. Boman as usual gives full justice to his role as the mean, taskmaster VIRUS with a lisp. Sharman and Madhavan as supporting actors have done a good job, though Maddy could have reduced his weight for his role as an Engg student.

But the ACE in the PACK is surely Aamir, he excels as Rancho. If you watch a Rajnikant movie it would be out and out Rajni movie, he wold have a punchline some unique action/ mannersim for every movie of his. Rajini would be larger than the movie…but Aamir gets into the skin of Rancho and never once are you made to feel its an Aamir Khan movie. He looks like a college going 22 year old and not a 40 year old. Hats off to him.

The story is so simple yet makes you rake your grey cells. It has been beautifully told with lots of light moments especially when Chatur gets on the screen – be it the CHAMATKAR/BALATKAR scenes or the comic scenes between the trisome on their drive to Ladakh. Chatur matches to the experienced stalwarts of this movie. There isnt much to be talked about on the music of this movie – 3 songs which aren’t chartbusters but breezy ones that you could give a ear.

You take home pleasant memories of Phunsukh Wangdu the individual with 400 patents under his belt. Makes me wonder of this patent churning identity who should have filed at least 40 per year to reach 4 centuries mark over a decade. 🙂

3 Idiots not as comical as Munnabhai but truly worth a dekho for Rancho.

I came out of Chatrapati Shivaji Airport to be greeted by dust, noise, mad traffic and chaos. But that was what I wanted, which I had missed for the last 2 months. The well disciplined traffice in Britain/Canada didn’t interest me or the muffins, shortbreads for that matter. I wanted the hot , sultry tropical climate of India, the bumpy roads with crazy traffic, the spicy Punjabi food, tangy South Indian items and wholesome balanced – Maharashtrian thali. It made me feel AT HOME.

I was sweating in Mumbai’s humid weather, my tee-shirt stuck to me as a second layer of skin but it still seemed heaven. I felt secure. 🙂

Why ? For the simple reason that I missed my people, our food, my friendly neighbourhood, the feeling of being around your near and dear ones, the comfort feeling of being at a place that you have lived for the last 30 years – MY INDIA.

This feeling, I wouldn’t get elsewhere anytime…. However freindly, courteous were the Canadians and the British but I never felt secure as in my homeland.

I am back for good at last.

 

This Diwali we purchased crackers for my 4 year old son. When he was a year old he saw his father blast a bomb (cracker) in front of him that made him burst into tears out of fright. the very next day he was running with high temperature.

So this time we got just the mild ones – flower pot, sparklers, fire pencil and the chakri. The gun that was bought was played with without the roll caps else it was for me or my husband to play with the caps.

On 28th he went downstairs with his father armed with a packet of crackers, to return back after sometime with his hands covering his ears. The reason being there is BOMB BLAST downstairs and hence he doesn’t want to go down. 🙂

Made me smile at the little one’s innocence and the wrong choice of words.

I have just started learning to be diplomatic in my professional life though given a chance I would never prefer to be diplomatic in my professional or personal life. I would prefer to convey my thoughts and opinions point blank such that it is taken on face value. But then in the corporate world you get to meet people wherein tone down your choice of words to convey your message. The opposite person would not like to take things in a point blank manner.

But then this is the corporate world, what about our personal lives? Is it OK to be diplomatic in your personal life to avoid confrontations? But then don’t you think that you would be losing on the personal connection with your near and dear ones if you time and again have to keep playing with words to convey your thoughts? Or is that the better option considering our fast paced life where we don’t have time to spend happy hours with our loved ones forget confrontations?

Valparai
Green the color I love the most. One of the colors of Mother Earth also signifies fertility and gives a calming effect. Far from the bustling, burgeoning city life I decided to spend some time in the company of my favourite companion – Nature as always 🙂

I left for Madurai – city in Tamilnadu famous for its Meenakshi Temple and also the fragrant Malligai Poo (Jasmine), had to attend two ceremonies there. After having done with it headed further South to Pollachi a small town close to the city Coimbatore. The next day early morning we started for Valparai the rather unknown Green Valley on Earth.

This small town is about 64 km from Pollachi and there are regular State Government buses plying every half an hour till 10:30 p.m. Valparai – the unscathed, untouched hill station. Valparai isn’t visited by tourists as much as other hill stations hence its still safe from the litter produced by the tourists. Its an untamed paradise on earth. 5 of us left for Valparai early morning 6:30 a.m. in a Maruti 800 and hit the Pollachi Valparai road, close to an hour later we reached Aliyar dam. One could spend sometime at Aliyar dam else move ahead to reach in a short span the waterfalls – Monkey Falls. As the name suggests this place is an abode for monkeys and just be careful lest they snatch eatables from your hands.

From Monkey Falls you have 40 km to reach the final destination of Tranquility, but before that you have close to 40 hair pin bends to traverse through. The drive is scenic and you will love every bit of it unless you suffer from motion sickness. I very much wanted to capture each and every panorama being a shutterbug myself, but of course it would be difficult for the driver to stop in as and when we want, coz the roads are steep and not so broad for 2 way traffic to flow. (though it seems the roads were pretty bad and comparatively narrow in the past). Every direction that I turned I could see greenery. In my daily life I get to see concrete jungles and my desktop this was way different had such a calming,cooling and soothing experience, I wished we could stay in this milieu for ever.

En route we stopped at Waterfalls Estate and helped ourselves to homemade breakfast that we carried- Ragi Sevai, Unni Appam on plantain leaf and enjoyed the surroundings. As you drive through you will find Tea Estates throughout the journey and at times thick dense forest surrounding you.You would also get to hear the chattering of the monkeys and if you are lucky enough you could spot them too. There are boards put up en route saying that you could find deers, monkeys etc in the area you are passing by. Few spots had waterfalls and tourists were seen bathing in the same. The road goes all lithe and lissome through the Anamalai mountain range to reach the small town Valparai. On the way we stopped at Siddhivinayak temple to offer our prayers to the Lord. Unlike the mythological stories told in South India that Lord Ganesh isn’t married the temple here has statues of Lord Ganesh with his two wives. Its told in northern India that the elephant deity is married. Flowers were in full bloom and at times you can smell the fragrance of various flowers on your way. We finally reached the town of Valparai with few schools and a small market.

From here we headed towards Mudis which comes under the Mist zone area. On the way we got to see Coffee plantations and some newly planted Tea Plantations. There were pepper creepers too grappling over trees and of course cardamom. One of the major problems here is that the roads next to the estates are owned by the estate owners, hence its their responsibility to lay the roads not the governments. We found the drive from Valparai to Mudis bumpy. We reached Pannimade (meaning area of pigs in Tamil) which actually was Panimade (meaning misty area) but colloquially got changed to Pannimade in the long run. Well this was our destination, which had the Tata Coffee factory – Pannimade Estate.
Tea Estate at valparai

We knew one of the locals working in this company so we were allowed to go on a Factory visit to check the Tea Production. The Tea leaves are dried for close to 15 days and then powdered -which have different grades and are distributed to various outlets all over the country. The finer the granules the higher the rate and this factory had around 5 different grades. The tea plantations here were pretty old planted by the Britishers somewhere in 1920. The Britishers were the first to cultivate tea here. Valparai is surrounded by thick dense forests and locals here have had some mishaps with the wild animals viz. elephants, bisons etc. Its not new to hear stories that elephants were on the rampant and they reached the residential area, uprooted the trees, broke down the doors etc. Locals here could take you in their trucks in the night time if you are interested to view some of the wild animals :). Leeches are found in abundance during the rainy season here.

We stayed in one of the locals house for the day. Valparai isn’t commercialized unlike the other hill stations viz. Munnar etc, hence it doesn’t have facilities for stay etc. In the evening we headed for Balaji Temple. This temple is surrounded by beautiful flowers and children’s park. The flowers and plants that grow in Valparai are so beautiful but they can’t be grown in a place like Pune as they need the environmental conditions prevalent in Valparai. We planned to go to Adirapalli falls the next day…yeah the very same falls – where Kamalhassan took a plunge to commit suicide in the hit Tamil movie

Punnagai Manan. Unfortunately our plan didn’t work out and the next day we headed back to Pollachi with few kg of Valparai tea. Next chance that I get I am surely heading towards Adirapalli falls. Wait for my post on the same 🙂

Nearest railroad :- Pollachi
Nearest airport :- Coimbatore 40 km from Pollachi.
Lodging :- Not many hotels/lodges are available in Valparai. Its better to stay at a locals place.
Best option for traveling from Pollachi to Valparai is a taxi as you can stop at any place and enjoy nature’s pristine beauty.

Yesterday like any other day I left home for my office on my 2 wheeler and reached the ever crowded and jam packed University circle. I slowed down to the pace of the slow moving traffic to find a couple perched 🙂 on their bike. Well the guy was driving his Pulser and the girl was behind him on the pillion seat. She was completely leaning on him and holding him tightly as if she would fall any moment. I know kids hold their parents when they sit on the pillion seat but thats because they shouldn’t fall down, but do grown up girls also fear the same- phobia? I wondered how would the guy be driving, I mean if someone has put in his/her weight completely on you then how can you drive comfortably? Not me !!!!

I remember sometime back one of my colleagues hitched a ride on my Scooty and she was leaning on me (not the way the girl was leaning on her boyfriend) during the whole ride. I found it pretty difficult to drive. Do guys enjoy girls holding them tightly or is it that they get claustrophobic but don’t mention, like me? 🙂

Well you guys might wonder what a weird title, but thats what was the result of the test that I gave at BLOGTHINGS

On Friday over lunch myself and my friend had a discussion with one of our male colleagues regarding women being career minded. Now one of my colleagues had recently put down her papers as she will soon be getting married and will fly to USA with her hubby as he will be on site for more than a year. Now my male colleague was of the opinion why should she have left the job, she could have continued in our company after coming back to India etc…. Now leave apart the technical aspect of this being possible or not (i.e. whether the company will take her after a year) but I said I don’t think she is a career minded girl. As per him there is no such concept of career, its all about money and love for your work.

Myself and my friend said that its not necessary that a female would leave her job on the pretext of marriage, but it could be any of these reasons – delivery, dear hubby not wanting a modern wife, in laws not wanting a working daughter-in-law etc. He wouldn’t agree to these reasons. Of course this is the reality of LIFE. We talk of Women getting liberated, out of domestic violence, working shoulder to shoulder with other men etc….. But I have known females who have left their job to take care of their kid post delivery as in laws have refused to take care of the little one in spite of theirs being a joint family, also females leaving their job post marriage as in laws/husband don’t want a working female in their family.

My friend voiced her opinion that a women shouldn’t leave her job post marriage as men take her for granted and she isn’t given the respect, importance that she deserves as a wife or daughter-in-law. Well of course she is a part and parcel of your life and you need to give that respect to your wife. I have known a family where the husband had finalized a house to be bought and showed it to his son-in-law, son but he never felt the need to show it to his wife after 30 years of marriage. Is this the respect that she deserves for standing by you in the thick and thin of life?

I like to go to work, because of my love for it and also I find it a means of keeping myself out of unwanted thoughts and come on men my parents haven’t educated me to sit at home and just scrub the floor, you could say its escapism. 🙂 It gives me a sense of security that tomorrow if the need arises I can take care of myself and my kid.

Well I guess thats the result of my opinions, views – 65% FEMINIST 🙂 But do you think its possible to lead a married life being a 100% feminist, I don’t think so in today’s world – INDIAN SOCIETY IS STILL CONSERVATIVE